Valentine’s Day brings high and low emotions

first_img By Jaine Treadwell Remember America’s heroes on Memorial Day Email the author Plans underway for historic Pike County celebration Published 3:05 am Saturday, February 7, 2015 Valentine’s Day brings high and low emotions Latest Stories Mama would cook his favorite food, stewed potatoes. That would be it or so we thought.Just as soon as Mama and I got finished in the kitchen and sat down to watch television, Daddy the King of the Castle would say, “How about one of y’all getting me a bowl of ice cream.”And, one of us would hop right up and get Daddy a big, mixing bowl of ice cream and Mama would get her box of chocolates and start mashing.For many years, that was our Valentine Day’s tradition. We celebrated Daddy’s birthday and Valentine’s Day as one. It was a happy time.Then, all of that changed.On Feb. 13, 1965, Daddy’s mother and my grandmother died. Mommie’s death was the first experience I had of the loss of someone so close to me. Pain and sorrow engulfed me.Mommie was buried on Daddy’s birthday, on Valentine’s Day. Her death and Daddy’s birthday became as one.Mama didn’t get a big, heart-shaped box of candy with plastic roses on top that year.Valentine’s Day was cloaked in sadness and would forever, thereafter, be a bittersweet day in our lives.The next year though, I looked out the window. “Mama, here comes Daddy with ‘his’ box of Valentine candy.”She laughed.For years after, Mama mashed the middles. Daddy ate his favorite, stewed potatoes at suppertime and called for his mixing bowl of ice cream.  But much of the joy was missing and always would be.Daddy died in 1983. On the next Valentine’s Day, I bought Mama a big, heart-shaped box of Valentine’s candy with plastic roses on the top. We both cried.There would be no more big, heart-shaped boxes of Valentine candy with plastic roses on the top in our lives. Inside the box was an assortment of soft-centered chocolates.Mama would mash the chocolates to see what was inside. She didn’t care for many of the centers but, evidently, that didn’t bother Daddy one bit.He went right behind her, eating the candies with exposed centers, not seeming to notice that he’d eaten more of Mama’s Valentine candy than she had. Sponsored Content Skip This Video Will Soon Be Banned. Watch Before It’s… By Secrets Revealed Book Nook to reopen You Might Like Is political action required for economic progress? The Johnson Center is extremely pleased to bring Jason Riley to Troy next week. Mr. Riley is an editorial writer… read more Around the WebMd: Do This Immediately if You Have Diabetes (Watch)Blood Sugar BlasterIf You Have Ringing Ears Do This Immediately (Ends Tinnitus)Healthier LivingHave an Enlarged Prostate? Urologist Reveals: Do This Immediately (Watch)Healthier LivingWomen Only: Stretch This Muscle to Stop Bladder Leakage (Watch)Healthier LivingRemoving Moles & Skin Tags Has Never Been This EasyEssential HealthTop 4 Methods to Get Fortnite SkinsTCGThe content you see here is paid for by the advertiser or content provider whose link you click on, and is recommended to you by Revcontent. As the leading platform for native advertising and content recommendation, Revcontent uses interest based targeting to select content that we think will be of particular interest to you. We encourage you to view your opt out options in Revcontent’s Privacy PolicyWant your content to appear on sites like this?Increase Your Engagement Now!Want to report this publisher’s content as misinformation?Submit a ReportGot it, thanks!Remove Content Link?Please choose a reason below:Fake NewsMisleadingNot InterestedOffensiveRepetitiveSubmitCancel Romantic is not a word that would have been used to describe Daddy.I’m not sure the word was even in his vocabulary.But he understood the meaning of Valentine’s Day, so he always bought Mama a big, heart-shaped box of Valentine candy with plastic roses on the top. Print Article Pike County Sheriff’s Office offering community child ID kits “Look, Mama, here comes Daddy with ‘his’ Valentine candy.”Mama would laugh and act surprised and happy but secretly wished that, just one time, Daddy would get her a box of those pecan clusters that she liked so much … and ones she wouldn’t have to mash.Daddy’s birthday was on Valentine’s Day and every year Mama would bake him a birthday cake and decorate it with red hearts and write “Happy Birthday, William” on the top.Daddy didn’t care for parties, so that was about the most we made of his birthday. We’d give him some presents that he didn’t especially want. Troy falls to No. 13 Clemsonlast_img

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